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Something Beautiful

Today my Gramps Ikey and Gran Jean would have celebrated 53 years of marriage. Their 52 years together as Mr and Mrs I Geduld brought them 5 daughters - our wonderful Aunts - their fine husbands, many kids and even, Miss Jorja.

I firmly believe that their marriage stood the test of time because they had their priorities in place. I distinctly remember them teaching us, "As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord."

Today I finally finished the work on our own Wedding Album. If all goes well, we'll be viewing it just as we arrive at our own 5th wedding anniversary. It seemed a bittersweet thing to be thinking of our 'newlywed' status under the circumstances. Our record pales in comparison to theirs!

We will scatter my Gramps Ikey's ashes this evening, travelling along the coastal route of the Cycle Tour and recollecting our fond memories of him on his bicycle. With sadness we will say goodbye again and offer comfort to my Gran as she faces this day without him by her side.

We wait with great anticipation for the arrival of the album, to reminisce about that day, to spend the time with our family and to learn from those who have gone before us.

We will always be grateful for their sound advice.


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  1. michelleDecember 13, 2011 at 9:18 PM

    what a beautiful picture, and what lovely and truthful thoughts. thanks for sharing.

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