E - Vida

Dear Jorja, You are now 10 years old.  Double digits   , as the Grannies would emphasise when I was younger. Just days old So, what does this mean? Well, it means you've been given the gift of life for 10 years already! Some have gone by in a blur and others have stuck in your mind for longer.  Don't take any one of those days for granted. It means that you are growing up - learning more and knowing more. And hopefully using that knowledge to make wise decisions. Now, when asked to choose between knowledge or wisdom, always choose wisdom!   It means that you have reason to celebrate; who you are, where you've been and what you've done. You often choose the path less travelled and don't seem to feel alone on the journey. You are braver than you know . It means that you don't have to change who you are, to be loved . Jorja Sarah, 10 years old We love watching you paint and craft, bake and dance, snuggle up with a book and ride your bike...

Back on the blog Back in the States Back to School Back so sore from sleeping on different beds around Cape Town and carrying heavy kids and bags around airports... We are, indeed, happy to be back! Not much can be done about the untold stories of the last 5 months... I mean, yes, I'm disappointed that we didn't capture them here. But many of you were apart of our lives quite closely during this time. You saw most if it - the good, the great, the birth days, camp life and braais. See how I only highlighted the good stuff? Like a real social media con artist. Then there was also the loss, the inconvenience, the distraction, the goodbyes. What a rollercoaster. Now that we're further apart again, I hope to post regularly about what's happening in our lives. And it will be real - don't you worry. I'm watching a lady hurry over the grass to her mailbox. Looks like she's expecting something lekker! Chat soon x

I love that in a complete co-incidence, my children received their first South African library cards on World Read Aloud Day!  We've been trying all week to get it sorted - proof of this, copy of that, get the opening hours right and and and ...Eeeee-ven-tually it all came together and just in time on this day too. Reading with the children is a necessary and valuable sacrifice: totally worth it even though it's not always a perfect fit in a dog-tired day. Our kids have been fortunate - introduced to books from a young age in the form of gifts and while following the Ambleside Curriculum. Education properly understood is not merely the assimilation of data and technique; it is the mind feeding on ideas given expression in God’s creation, great art, beautiful music, and “living books.” Real learning occurs when students engage with novelists, poets, philosophers, scientists, mathematicians, artists, musicians, historians and explorers; when they wonder, and as...

It is almost a distant memory...but some parts are particularly vivid! Like, I can still hear Baby shouting as we hauled the Christmas tree out the back door and packed the decorations away. "It must stay up! It must stay up!" she wailed. But, what we lost in the festive look of the lounge, we gained in the form of a packing conveyor belt. Once our dinner guests had left on the Sunday night, we were all stations go on the final pack. Goodbye Tree!  On Monday morning we hit the road to New York. Our 5 plus SIL, her son and Ma. Excitement levels, barakat levels and petrol levels were well high. We only started to panic a little when our GPS decided to take us on a route that would  avoid all highways  and we travelled through what we called "Little Italy" because of the narrow, cobblestone, windy roads. Fortunately, we rectified this setting before dark but by then our best laid plans of seeing the City by daylight had past. Instead we saw an (almost) pitch b...

Once the last of the trifle leftovers were cleaned away, we took a few days to lay low and..  Read(ing): Santa Paws by Nicholas Edwards. It is a Christmas time book but the kids are engrossed - ah, the luxury/value/sacrifice of reading at bedtime! Watched: Mamma Mia 2 with all the family -  singalong songs and all. Not as great as the first one, in my opinion, I mean... Meryl Streep. But watching DH cringe with musical theatre misery and yet he still volunteered it (and didn't complain) for the sake of our movie night memories, made us all very glad.   Following: Kiara Mun-Gavin's miraculous story. A car and bike accident on Christmas Eve, devastating injuries and this young girl's fight. You can read it here  https://m.facebook.com/jacimungavin1/ Visited: Bradford on Sunday and enjoyed seeing a lot more snow up North. Tasty lunch followed by homemade dessert pies, family board games all set in a toasty log cabin filled my cup to overflowing...plus, the drive home was just ...

Remember that SA TV ad about Douglas Green? People are asking for directions and the arrows are at opposite ends? Oh what confusion! I'm kind of feeling in that 'in between' space right now... Like the moment I had yesterday, before red grape juice spills all over your clothes at a lunch outing and you’d think you know better than to give it to the 2-year old balancing precariously on your lap, but you gave it to her anyway, pretty much fortold the mishap in your mind and then had to clean up, embarrassed and sit in stained clothes for the rest of the day...   (I've seen many people post messages about 2018 being about lessons. I should really learn that grape juice one!) There's so much pressure on NYE. To be reminiscent to the point of philosophical, be driven, be prepared, be on point. Gosh! I can remember having to coax my older sister into getting dressed up on NYE, every year during high school ...just in case we found (and were invited to join) ...

This was a full week for the family. On Saturday, Dear Husband and I celebrated our 12th Wedding Anniversary with a day trip to Boston, Massachusetts. We were so looking forward to the 2 hour drive and a taste of the City again...and of course, some kid-free time! Our gracious babysitter received the kids at 10:00 and we were off! The trip up was a little longer and detour-ish than expected but we weren't losing steam (neither did we hit default and start talking about the kids)! Our ramp into the City was a little hair-raising - multiple lanes, hu-uuu-uge intersections and traffic! Fortunately we found parking pretty quickly and then set off on foot to the markets. Instead of lunch, we shared a Boston Creme Pie (no less) and spent more time exploring - after all, we were child-free! On the road home, we stopped by an Outlet Mall (Husband's fave hangout!) and then resumed the dark and fairly foreign drive back. We arrived back by 20:00 to three cheery childr...