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Since the big reveal

Since my last post, I’ve received quite a lot of feedback including well wishes and concerned interest. I really do appreciate both - it reminds me that I am taking on a big responsibility and hopefully keeps me encouraged as we tackle this new chapter head on. But some of the questions! These are the most common three - 

Q: Is this something you’ve wanted to do?
What I’d like to say
A: Not really. I chucked a few options in a hat alongside nursing – including mechanic, baker and juggler – and picked one!
What I rather say, because it’s true!
A: Yes! I have a real desire to serve people – which could shed some light on my 10+ years spent being a Personal Assistant. More specifically, I’ve wanted to help people with more than just a kind smile and a listening ear, but also with the necessary skills - to be available, to be knowledgeable, and to put high standards and quality care into action.
At school-leaving age, I considered a few roles that could match this description; Teacher, Coach, PA and Nurse. Finally, this door has been opened and I am sure that I am in the right place at the right time.

Q: What about the blood?
What I’d like to say
A: Hadn’t really considered that. I mean, imagine patient care involved snot and vomit too?
What I rather say, because it’s true!
A: I will admit to feeling that excessive blood loss is messy, snot is slimy, vomit is most times smelly and hardly ever lands up in an easy to dispose of area. And I realise that I will not be exempt from dealing with this on the job. But drawing on my older sister and Mom experience, I can’t quite determine the limit to the exposure to these and other messy mediums.  More people have asked me about bed pans than anything else since the news broke. I’m not kidding myself – I imagine that it’s going to get real gross at times. Let’s just hope that in good time I will learn how to be efficient and well-skilled in the clean-up, monitoring and assisting under these circumstances.

Q: Aren’t the hours long?
What I’d like to say
A: No! Study hours, shift work and sleep deprivation is what my body needs
What I rather say, because it’s true!
A: Emergencies, aging, dependence and pain (much like good ideas) do not keep office hours. I’d be silly to think that wanting to do this would need to fit into a 9-5 kind-of-day. I don’t wish for interrupted sleep, limited family time and tired feet…all I’m saying is that this is the requirement and I’m willing to do it.


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  1. michelleMay 31, 2015 at 6:28 PM

    Well said! So on the eve of your 'new' life, here's wishing you God's richest blessings and guidance. May you fulfil all the potential that I KNOW you have. Enjoy every minute!

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